Thoughts

  • How to Become an Attacher (Part 2)

    How to Become an Attacher (Part 2)

    What if a trained, experienced, 40-year DETACHER asked, “How do I become an ATTACHER?” What are the steps? Stephen continues with Part 2 of How to Become an Attacher.

  • How to Become an Attacher (Part 1)

    How to Become an Attacher (Part 1)

    What if a trained, experienced, 40-year, DETACHER asked, “How do I become an ATTACHER?” What are the steps? Stephen discusses part 1 of How to Become an Attacher.

  • Opposites Attract

    Opposites Attract

    Married men often discover this truism of relationship after they are married: “Opposites often attract.”

  • What Type of Marriage do you Have?

    What Type of Marriage do you Have?

    There are generally two types of people. And, three types of marriages.

  • Friday Discussion

    Friday Discussion

    Discussion: Addictions are complicated. But there are some similarities. They are often seen as a way to escape emotional pain.

  • Rest

    Rest

    What is the inner dialogue of a man with an addiction? What taunts him? What are his inner tormenting messages? There is one constant that is often observed: It’s his inability to find rest.

  • Men’s Emotional Self-Awareness Test

    Men’s Emotional Self-Awareness Test

    The other day, someone mentioned a self awareness test. I thought about it and did a little research. My imagination went wild with what I could do with it. What would a self-awareness test look like if I wrote one?

  • Your Heart

    Your Heart

    Remember, running a great heart is one of your spiritual assignments.

  • Welcome to the Class

    Welcome to the Class

    The day you said, “I do” was your first day of admission to class. You are now enrolled in Heaven’s Training School of Love.

  • Friday Discussion

    Friday Discussion

    DISCUSSION: Generally speaking, women talk about EMOTIONS, WOUNDINGS, and RELATIONSHIPS, while men talk about BEHAVIORS and SOLUTIONS. Read and discuss.

  • An Emotional Growth Awakening

    An Emotional Growth Awakening

    How does an individual experience an emotional awakening? I am talking about a man who is emotionally stuck and not in growth mode. He’s not happy, floundering, and may even be caught up in an addiction.

  • Our Identity

    Our Identity

    Your wounds and your past failings want to define you. They scream of your unworthiness. And, shout out your shortcomings. But your identity in Christ gives you freedom.