Thoughts

  • An Emotional Growth Awakening

    An Emotional Growth Awakening

    How does an individual experience an emotional awakening? I am talking about a man who is emotionally stuck and not in growth mode. He’s not happy, floundering, and may even be caught up in an addiction.

  • Our Identity

    Our Identity

    Your wounds and your past failings want to define you. They scream of your unworthiness. And, shout out your shortcomings. But your identity in Christ gives you freedom.

  • Learning Your Wife’s Heart

    Learning Your Wife’s Heart

    Sometimes relationship-talking is hard on a husband. A wife might say one line and it has multiple meanings. She might slip in this little statement, “I want you to know my heart.”

  • Soul Care

    Soul Care

    Inside you, your spirit and the Holy Spirit are intended to work as a team. These two spirits are to run your life consistent with God’s eternal design.

  • Why We Write

    Why We Write

    As life progressed, I learned my favorite topic: marriage. It serves two main purposes. It’s a special place where God does miraculous things. And, it’s an emotional training program. Because in marriage, you quickly learn your strengths and weaknesses.

  • Day of Encouragement

    Day of Encouragement

    Verses, blessings and sayings for your encouragement.

  • Two Emotional Challenges

    Two Emotional Challenges

    We all need love. And, lots of it. You were made by love, for love, and to love. Love drives your soul. Love resets all systems. Love allows you to run your system as originally designed.

  • What Kind of Man are You?

    What Kind of Man are You?

    The goal when you are disappointed is to grieve but not to lose your peace, rest, or joy. No matter what is thrown at you. Always stand on the truths of Jesus including his promises of peace, rest, and joy.

  • Dad and Me vs. Jesus and Me

    Dad and Me vs. Jesus and Me

    We have all run wounded emotional programs. In life the goal is to move from the first program to the second program. In doing so we are being healed spiritually, emotionally and eternally. Healing happens when we stay in the presence of Abba, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit.

  • Radical Transparency

    Radical Transparency

    There are men all around us who are drowning in sexual temptation. And, there is little guidance and help for them.

  • Be Still My Soul

    Be Still My Soul

    Sometimes when you find yourself at the intersection of love, God, and oneness–you must just pause and be still.

  • Freedom from Old Patterns

    Freedom from Old Patterns

    We repeat old patterns learned in childhood, even as an adult, we continue in these patterns.