Tag: Communication

  • Limiting Beliefs

    Limiting Beliefs

    What Self-Limiting Beliefs Do You Carry?

  • My Response

    My Response

    How do you respond when your wife is venting emotional pain? Do you stay present? Can you remain calm? Are you able to look past the intensity and see the hurt underneath? Or… do you shift into panic and survival?

  • Two Brains

    Two Brains

    What if you could divide all your thoughts into two camps: Every thought—either Sane or Crazy.

  • Accessible, Responsive and Engaged

    Accessible, Responsive and Engaged

    These three words come from Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and answer a single, essential question: “When I am in distress, will you be there for me?”

  • Be More Curious

    Be More Curious

    What do your words reveal about you and how you see life?

  • Work Through Sadness Together

    Work Through Sadness Together

    Let’s explore one scenario that is common and easily observed. It’s full of information and insight. The topic is dealing with sadness.

  • Marriage as a Second Language

    Marriage as a Second Language

    What are statements and questions that a husband might hear? And what do they mean?

  • Talking to Her

    Talking to Her

    Story is the doorway to one’s soul. It’s at the soul level that we learn, connect, and nurture each other.

  • Husband Question

    Husband Question

    How can I help my wife when she gets messed up emotionally? I don’t know what to do or say. How can I help her? There are a few simple rules for working with someone who is flooding with hurt and pain. Prayer Father, it’s hard to sit still, stay present and be comforting. When…

  • Why Be Kind?

    Why Be Kind?

    After listening to thousands of people tell their stories I have arrived at one simple conclusion.

  • Talking Helps

    Talking Helps

    There was a meeting. At that meeting a gentleman started talking about his emotions. He said, “I talk for my mental health.”

  • Talk to Her

    Talk to Her

    A wife calmly pleads with her husband, “Talk to me. Please talk to me.”