Every man needs a father and mentor. Some fathers are not able to engage with their sons. And, those sons may struggle for a lifetime. Every son needs the blessing of a father who is also a guide and trainer. That son and father need to share life together. The blessing happens on a long walk over a lifetime. Just like Jesus and his apostles.

A young son is supposed to grow up alongside his father, mentor, and trainer. He should be hearing statements like these:

• Son, growing up is hard.
• You’re doing just fine.
• We are created in the image of God.
• Whenever you feel lost, move towards the heavenly father.
• I love you so much.

• If you fall down, get back up. I’ve fallen plenty.
• Being a boy is hard. Being a teenager is hard. Being a man is hard.
• You are a younger version of me.
• As long as I am alive, I will be here for you.
• I love you so much.

• You will struggle with your sexuality. I have.
• A disciplined life is a better life. Being men of discipline is our way
• I will teach you what I know. But remember I am still learning.
• I am a grown man and I am still figuring things out.
• I love you so much.

• My desire for your life is that you are healthy, safe, loved, happy, and walking closely with Jesus.
• I am your father and you are my good son.
• You are a gift to my life.
• You are a blessing.
• I love you so much.

Bible Connection

For God so loved (me) he sent his son. (See John 3:16, Isaiah 9:6)
And he left the Holy Spirit to counsel me. (See John 14:16, Luke 11:13, Mark 1:8, Luke 24:49)

Prayer

Father, I built my identity not on your love or my earthly father’s love, but on many painful life experiences. I want a re-do. I want to operate on deep, abiding, heavenly love. I honor my father and mother and their sacrifices. Today, I invite life-changing heavenly love to the deepest part of my soul. Amen.