Thoughts

  • A Former Approval Junkie Speaks Out

    A Former Approval Junkie Speaks Out

    You no longer have permission to define me. You are broken humanity—just like me. If you think it is your job to judge and shame me, it isn’t. But if you want to nurture, encourage, and support me, then let’s grow together.

  • Trust Yourself or Escape Habit?

    Trust Yourself or Escape Habit?

    Are you safe with yourself? Can you be left alone… and feel peaceful? Can you work through confusing, emotional moments? Or have you developed an escape habit?

  • Do you Freeze up?

    Do you Freeze up?

    How Do You Respond in an Emotionally Intense Conversation? When emotions rise and the conversation becomes intense, most people tend toward one of three responses: Freeze, Fight or Stay Present

  • Bad Drivers

    Bad Drivers

    Our pastor said on Sunday that we should pray for people who cut us off in traffic.

  • Make me like Jesus.

    Make me like Jesus.

    Dear God, I have a question. Why did you give me this wife?

  • Learning Rest

    Learning Rest

    What if God Wanted You to Learn Something? What if some of the most important moments of your life were not the loud ones…but the quiet ones? Moments when you experienced real rest. Deep, abiding rest. A place where your soul felt alive, creative, and unhurried.

  • The Alone Place

    The Alone Place

    You can often measure the quality of a life by what happens when a person is alone.

  • Marriage is…

    Marriage is…

    What Is Marriage All About? What is the purpose of marriage? And how does it shape a person?

  • Outside- Inside Me

    Outside- Inside Me

    What if you reach the end of your life and these three statements are true: You know no one. No one knows you. You don’t even know yourself. How sad.

  • Me- In Three Parts

    Me- In Three Parts

    We all long for love and belonging. Old wounds and unhealthy soothing keep us from connecting deeply today. Crying out and seeking help is the first step toward finding love and connection.

  • 39 Lashes

    39 Lashes

    You were a sinner in need of a Savior. Jesus is the One who stood up and paid your judgment debt. On the journey to save your soul, He endured 39 lashes. Let that sink in. He took those lashes for you.

  • To Men Under 35

    To Men Under 35

    A Message to Husbands Under 35 from men who have already lived it.