I went to a seminar yesterday.

The speaker said, “marriage is were two individuals try to create a safe space and help each other with individual growth”.

Meaning –

• Each spouse should be on a growth mission.
• The marriage should be a “safe place” to work on growing and changing.

It was a light bulb moment!!!

How can the above two things happen if either spouse is stuck (not changing) OR out of control?

If, one spouse is stuck it limits individual and relationship growth.

If, one spouse is out of control it creates an unsafe marriage.

Prayer

Father, please help me make a small growth step today. And, help me with any behaviors that want to get out of control. Thank you and Amen

P.S. Please let love and rest rule in me today.