Thoughts
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It’s Your Choice to Love
In life, you have three choices. You can love, you can move to a love-neutral position, or you can quit trying to love.
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Exquisite Marriage
Great relationships are about attaching and bonding. Daily work at developing those skills.
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Prioritize Building Attachments
Attachment is one of our most basic needs. It is where we feel safe and experience physical, spiritual, and emotional closeness. Attachment is a deep, deep bond.
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Mr. Unemotional: Moving from Isolation to Connection
In this episode, we dive into the emotional struggles men face, especially those recovering from addiction. We explore the concept of “Mr. Unemotional,” describing men who find it hard to express their feelings due to past experiences or societal pressures.
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Connecting with Quiet
Silence used at the right time in a relationship is golden. Silence is holding time and space for another person. It becomes fertile soil for new thoughts and growth. Silence is a teacher. We are the student. Silence teaches us greater self and other awareness.
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Fear of Pain
Everyone carries old—deep pain. It’s from a lifetime of failing and being rejected. Some of us are scared of the old pain. Mostly, we try to just ignore it. But it won’t stay ignored, avoided, or denied. It’s real and it’s there living deep in your soul.
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Attachment Injury
Christians are made for bonding, connecting, and oneness. We are also called to community and fellowship. A major part of the faith is attaching, bonding, and belonging.
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Think Big. No, Bigger
I am reminded I am walking alongside a big, big God, with a big, big vision.
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Training Day
Whatever your battle or challenge training, not trying is the goal. Training includes having a plan, then daily working that plan. And periodically rebind adjusting the plan.
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Be Strong and Courageous
You’ll need courage to live on the mountain top and you will also need courage to live in the valley.
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What Do You Say About Yourself?
Growing up, we all had experiences being called names. Some were insulting and belittling. Even today, some individuals repeat those names when referring to themselves.
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Your Mission, Should You Choose to Accept It
All difficult life challenges are God-approved assignments. I will accept and not fight against my assignment.