How does a guy become more interesting? And I mean interesting to his wife. Interesting so the two can connect more deeply.

The answer is to work on emotional growth.

Start pulling on the threads of thoughts that rise from your soul.

• Think about those thoughts
• Pray about those thoughts
• Talk about those thoughts

Think about how these feelings reside in your soul. Consider:

• Rejection
• Unworthiness
• Not liking myself
• Using alcohol, drugs, or sex for distraction
• Not having peace

Are you thinking emotions are just confusion? Try moving from logic to emotions.

Digging deeper

Think about being hungry for growth, being interested in how your system works, and using that insight to understand how your wife’s system works.

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Never stop learning. Never stop emotional growth.