Thoughts
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Recovering from your Past
Today’s three words are: Grieve, Release, and Rest.
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We Eagerly Await
The first part of your emotional program comes in preprogrammed. If you’ve had at least two children you understand. From a very young age one child is quiet and shy. The other is the opposite–loud and non-stop motion. The second part of your emotional program is family influenced and shaped. A speaker once made this…
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Innocence, Beauty, and Awe
Look for the beauty in God’s creation and pause when you experience a moment of awe, because you are standing in the presence of God.
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Four Insights
There are four big emotional questions everyone quietly asks.
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Overcoming, For my Marriage
Not everyone knows how to develop a great marriage. It takes lots of work for two to merge into one. Here are four scenarios that hinder a great relationship.
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Deep Questions
What are the deepest, most basic, questions that rise out of your soul?
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Marriage Culture
Marriage is a relationship that requires growth and skill building. How many of these skills do you use in your relationship?
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Under-Sad
“You have been under-sad.” Of all the emotions, sadness is a critical one. Sadness means the emotional system is turned on and working. But what if you decided, when you were young, all emotions were overwhelming; the best solution was to just shut down. You’ve spent your whole life trying to hold a middle position,…
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Emotional Family Therapy
When listening to your wife, when she is struggling emotionally, separate two thoughts.
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We Are Predictable
Have you ever noticed how people are very patterned?
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The Hardest Battle
e are human. At times we push ourselves to our very limits. When a man has reached his physical limits, you hear him say…
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What it Looks Like
Some men wake up after a relationship crisis and claim to be working on emotional growth. If someone is working on a growth mission, some new behaviors should be clearly visible.