Thoughts

  • Attachment Wounds

    Attachment Wounds

    Everyone I know has an attachment wound. That means they were poorly trained in attaching, bonding, and connecting. How do you know if you have an attachment wound?

  • Two Become One?

    Two Become One?

    Father, I need to talk to You about my wife. Thank You that I can tell You everything. No one understands like You do.

  • Is He Changing?

    Is He Changing?

    Wives often ask this question, “How do I know if my husband is really changing?”

  • Emotional Pain Responses

    Emotional Pain Responses

    Four Ways Men Respond to Emotional Pain

  • Disconnected Husband Thoughts

    Disconnected Husband Thoughts

    A Disconnected Husband Shares Eight Thoughts

  • Stop asking Why!

    Stop asking Why!

    Please stop asking an underdeveloped, broken human being why they did something stupid.

  • A Former Approval Junkie Speaks Out

    A Former Approval Junkie Speaks Out

    You no longer have permission to define me. You are broken humanity—just like me. If you think it is your job to judge and shame me, it isn’t. But if you want to nurture, encourage, and support me, then let’s grow together.

  • Trust Yourself or Escape Habit?

    Trust Yourself or Escape Habit?

    Are you safe with yourself? Can you be left alone… and feel peaceful? Can you work through confusing, emotional moments? Or have you developed an escape habit?

  • Do you Freeze up?

    Do you Freeze up?

    How Do You Respond in an Emotionally Intense Conversation? When emotions rise and the conversation becomes intense, most people tend toward one of three responses: Freeze, Fight or Stay Present

  • Bad Drivers

    Bad Drivers

    Our pastor said on Sunday that we should pray for people who cut us off in traffic.

  • Make me like Jesus.

    Make me like Jesus.

    Dear God, I have a question. Why did you give me this wife?

  • Learning Rest

    Learning Rest

    What if God Wanted You to Learn Something? What if some of the most important moments of your life were not the loud ones…but the quiet ones? Moments when you experienced real rest. Deep, abiding rest. A place where your soul felt alive, creative, and unhurried.