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Change Your Fuel

Sometimes people ask about the job of a Mentor. My job is simple. “I help you see the brokenness in your emotional program.” My assumption is, you are a good person and a lot of your life works just fine. You and I start talking because something in your emotional program is not working correctly.

The fuel source for your Spiritual-Emotional system is (most of the time) a combination of three emotions. They are peace, rest, and joy.

Part of your adult life mission is to identify any false beliefs, fears, lies, patterns, and doubts you picked up in childhood. These things keep your Spiritual-Emotional system from running as designed. Once you identify untruths (bad programming) in your emotional system, they must be replaced.

Here’s one way to change your fuel source:

You lay your false, broken, negative, childhood beliefs down on the ground. Jesus, then lays down, in front of you, his glorious, perfect, heavenly view of you. Then he whispers, “You get a do-over. Pick up either one to use from this day forward. No matter your choice, I will still love you like crazy!”

Bible Connection

Read the following passages in your favorite translation, and personalize them:

  • John 3:16
  • Romans 10:9-10
  • 1 John 4:19

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Posted on

August 11, 2025

by

Stephen Cervantes

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1 John 4:19, 231124, Day 33, John 3:16, Romans 10:9-10
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