What does it take to have a great emotional marriage?
Two things.
You need two safe, growing, individuals.
Then, you need a safe place for those two individuals to work on personal growth–together.
Any out of control behavior challenges emotional safety.
Your mission is to walk in spiritual wisdom and emotional disciple.
In the past you walked in fantasy, escaping, and running to momentary pleasure.
Now, you are a toddler on a new mission.
(Toddler because you are a little wobbly.)
You may have already noticed.
Being a safe man has a deeply peaceful and satisfying feeling to it.
So, today strive to be a safe man.
Prayer
Father, this is our prayer. Help us as we grow into safe men. We need emotional safely for ourselves, spouses and those around us. Amen