Thoughts
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 What we Sound LikeWhat do we sound like to others and how do we become self-aware? 
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 Are You “Under Sad”? Understanding the Importance of Grieving for MenIn this episode, we explore the idea of men being “under sad”—when we struggle to recognize or express sadness. We talk about why grieving is essential for emotional health, not just in big losses but in everyday disappointments. 
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 We Live DividedWhat if, somewhere on your childhood journey, you divided yourself? 
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 Note to SelfSometimes it helps when complicated things are made simple 
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 Start with the WithdrawerYou must always start by helping the spouse who is the Withdrawer. 
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 Understanding Marital ConflictEmotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) has been discussed previously. Here is another concept from that relationship perspective. 
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 Relationship ConflictMarried couples get stuck in a loop of arguing and conflict. The more they argue and fight the larger the disconnection. 
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 A Goodbye LetterA Goodbye Letter to Ed, Danny, and Ernest. 
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 Man with a PlanDo you have an Emotional Growth Plan? And is it working? 
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 Four Good PointsA friend shared a few of his thoughts with me. He said, “There are Four Things I Know.” Here is what he said. 
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 Hold SpaceWhat do you do when you’re learning about someone you love? You “hold space” for them. 

