Thoughts
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 Why is it so hard to see yourself?A wife recently asked her husband, Why is it so hard for you to see yourself? 
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 Heart, Mind, Soul, BodyHow does the Bible outline your emotional system? Your emotional system includes four parts. Those parts involve your heart, soul, mind, and body. 
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 Why Your Words Hurt so MuchIn case you were wondering. Why is it so difficult to make a connection with me. 
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 Change and a HopeLast week a breakthrough occurred. I saw my own fear and rejection cycle. I listened to the argument in my head. It was full of shame, unworthiness, and condemnation. 
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 Fear of Failure and RejectionAs long as I can remember I’ve fought one major fear. It’s both haunted and driven me. 
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 Why do we Erupt?What causes one to respond poorly and have an emotional eruption? 
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 Why I Avoid ConnectionDear wife, you recently asked, “Why do you struggle to connect with me?” I’ve been wrestling with that question. God recently showed me the answer. 
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 Inner Monologue WorkWhat if someone could experience your inner thought life? What would they learn about you? What negative self-beliefs would they hear? 
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 Spiritually AND Emotionally HealthyCan you work on your emotional system and have it run in harmony with your spiritual system? Jesus was an emotional and spiritual being. He celebrated at a wedding, wept over Lazarus, grieved that he could not gather the people together. At times he left everyone to be alone and pray. He got angry at… 
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 A True FriendIf you could design a best friend, what emotional skills would he possess? How would he act? What traits and qualities would he practice? 
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 Skills to ThriveMost of us learned a first set of emotional survival skills, but those are only half the tools you need. 
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 Stirring Up StrifeAfter years of engaging in this destructive cycle each spouse concludes the following: “I don’t think you like me!” 
