Thoughts

  • Give Your Emotions a Voice

    Give Your Emotions a Voice

    Today’s discussion is about using your voice. Some children were taught not to express their thoughts. Today, you are being asked to use your voice to express thoughts about yourself.

  • For Troubled Men

    For Troubled Men

    Since, you became a Christian, Jesus has patiently been waiting for you to invite him into the painful unworthy-belief-story that lives deep in your soul.

  • Recipe for Personal Growth

    Recipe for Personal Growth

    Stephen calls out four key ingredients for growth and change.

  • Male Maturity

    Male Maturity

    How does a man’s relationship thinking change over time? What is the difference between young, male, self-absorbed thinking and senior, male, Jesus-loving thinking?

  • Why Do We Fall?

    Why Do We Fall?

    Why do we fall? This is a deep question and we can’t ever fully answer the “why” questions. But it’s worth the conversation. In this episode, Stephen and Jonathan dive deep into the emotional and spiritual tangles that we all face.

  • Our Ministry Philosophy

    Our Ministry Philosophy

    Always practice gratitude. No blame, no Shame. Just keep moving forward! There is no failure–just new learning!

  • The Goodness of Sadness

    The Goodness of Sadness

    Some individuals found emotions chaotic and painful. The solution was to turn off their emotions. (Detach) So, now when they are supposed to feel sad they feel numb instead.

  • Easing the Change

    Easing the Change

    If you are someone who helps people make changes, whether it’s business changes, or heart changes, there are two areas of concern. Being aware of these areas can help you be more successful. The two areas are anxiety and sabotage.

  • Standing on Holy Ground

    Standing on Holy Ground

    As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.

  • Remember the Big Picture

    Remember the Big Picture

    How do you handle temptation? What do you do when the negative voices in your head try to define you? Or when old, pleasurable, sinful moments call you back? Remembering the big picture helps quiet all the inner chatter and makes temptation look petty.

  • Connecting Cues

    Connecting Cues

    A wife will often try to teach her husband about better connecting.

  • We Fall to the Level of our Training

    We Fall to the Level of our Training

    When a man is denied, ignored, let-down, or disappointed, you often see poor emotional training on display. When a man is intensely disappointed, he might fall to the “the level of his (childhood) training.”