Tag: Listening

  • How to Listen to Your Wife

    How to Listen to Your Wife

    Most husbands need to keep developing their emotional connection skills. This means strengthening both listening and reflecting skills. Here are some ideas for connecting and deepening dialogue.

  • Listening to Her

    Listening to Her

    What am I supposed to be hearing when she talks?

  • Husband Question

    Husband Question

    How can I help my wife when she gets messed up emotionally? I don’t know what to do or say. How can I help her? There are a few simple rules for working with someone who is flooding with hurt and pain. Prayer Father, it’s hard to sit still, stay present and be comforting. When…

  • How to Hold Space

    How to Hold Space

    If you give space for an idea to be explored a deepening process will occur.

  • Learning to Listen

    Learning to Listen

    When talking to someone you value, it’s critical to hear the person and not a problem.

  • Our Duty & Privilege

    Our Duty & Privilege

    In marriage, you will be asked to deal with your wife’s emotional pain.

  • Relationship-Talking

    Relationship-Talking

    What’s the difference between business talking and relationship talking?

  • Connecting with Quiet

    Connecting with Quiet

    Silence used at the right time in a relationship is golden. Silence is holding time and space for another person. It becomes fertile soil for new thoughts and growth. Silence is a teacher. We are the student. Silence teaches us greater self and other awareness.

  • Internal Family Systems

    Internal Family Systems

    There is a theory called Internal Family Systems. That theory says you, as a person, are organized into different parts. I’m going to use the language of “parts” as we discuss the following topic.

  • Listening

    Listening

    A husband decided to challenge himself. He told a friend, “Not listening has been a weakness of mine. So, listening will be my focus for the next 30 days.” Then, he continued and shared some more thoughts.