Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Start with the Withdrawer

You must always start by helping the spouse who is the Withdrawer.

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) has been discussed previously. Here is another concept from that relationship perspective.

Married couples get stuck in a loop of arguing and conflict. The more they argue and fight the larger the disconnection.

After years of engaging in this destructive cycle each spouse concludes the following: “I don’t think you like me!”