Is there a plan for listening to my wife? What am I supposed to be hearing when she talks?

Here are some ideas.

• Stay present. Be curious.
• The story is out front. She is the story. The story is not what you make up in your head.
• She is painting a picture with words. Listen for comments that repeat and emotionally charged words.
• She is in a battle called life. Which of these is she sharing?
  • Did she have a victory today? Celebrate with her.
  • Did she get wounded today? Grieve with her.
  • Did she discover a new puzzle piece in her understanding of life. Be surprised with her.
• When she’s getting close to the end of her story offer comfort.
• And end by quietly tell yourself, I’m so glad she wants to talk to me.

Why these ideas?

Bonding and intimacy occur when we make a deep, emotional connection.

Prayer

Father, please give me wisdom. Help me learn the skill of oneness. Amen.

Bible Connection

And the two shall become one… – Matthew 19:5-6 (TPT)