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How about creating a Positive-Head-Place?

Currently, you have a well established Negative-Head-Place. That Negative-Head-Place holds all your painful, failure memories. Which include mistakes, shame, regret, disappointments, hurt, and losses.

What About creating a Positive-Head-Place? It’s a place where you keep a stockpile of positive memories? Capture, even the smallest moments of love and joy.

Let your mind drift back and remember

  • A positive moment with dad.
  • A fun memory with mom.
  • A friend in grade school, middle school, or high school, etc.
  • Moments where you felt so loved.
  • That time when someone came to your aid.
  • Make it a collection of moments where you felt loved, connected, and nurtured.
  • Now, add spiritual moments of love.
  • Encounters with God. Answered prayers.
  • Moments of worship where His love washed over you.

Your Positive-Head-Place should include God, good, love, and belonging.

Homework

  1. Pray as you develop your Positive-Head-Place.
  2. Ask God to help you remember, past, positive, loved moments.
  3. Make this a new, growing, place where you go for renewal, refreshment, and rest.
  4. The next time you feel bad and start heading to the Negative-Head-Place, stop yourself. Turn and run to your new, Positive-Head-Place.

Jesus said, come to me and I will give you living water, renewal, and rest.

Amen

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December 14, 2023

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Stephen Cervantes

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