Upcoming Events
2025 Christian Counselors of Texas Annual Conference
Stephen is speaking and presenting on the Emotional Growth Map. February 20-22, 2025 in Pflugerville, Texas.
See the conference page at cctx.org
The Emotional Growth Map is a roadmap-tool to help counselors, coaches, and lay-leaders communicate common themes in how a man develops emotionally and the challenges that often result in addiction and unwanted sexual behaviors. Built on attachment theory, trauma wounds, shame language, the roles we play, poor self-soothing, and escaping into an addiction. The Emotional Growth Map uses biblical concepts to construct a healthy biblical-emotional model.
The Emotional Growth Map is based on Stephen’s workbook, Growth Map.

Podcasts
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Helping Men Practice Self-Awareness to Build Stronger Relationships
In this episode, Jonathan and I explore the importance of self-awareness in relationships, especially for husbands. We discuss how men can enhance their relationships by recognizing their interaction patterns and understanding their own emotional state and that of their wife’s.
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Working Through Emotional Disconnection in Marriage
In this episode, Jonathan and I dive into the ongoing struggles of emotional disconnection in marriage.
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The Power of Grace, Community, and Personal Transformation
In this special 1000th episode, we take a heartfelt trip down memory lane, reflecting on our journey since the podcast got started way back in 2005.
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Sadness and Hope
In this episode, Jonathan and I dive into the complexities of personal growth, focusing on how childhood experiences shape adult behavior.
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Mr. Unemotional: Moving from Isolation to Connection
In this episode, we dive into the emotional struggles men face, especially those recovering from addiction. We explore the concept of “Mr. Unemotional,” describing men who find it hard to express their feelings due to past experiences or societal pressures.
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Discover the Power of ‘Co’ in Relationships and Recovery
In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen talk about the power of “co,” meaning “together” or “jointly,” in relationships and recovery. They dive into how collaboration and connection are essential for personal growth and healing, especially in marriage and overcoming addiction.
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Unlocking Greatness
In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen dive into the theme of emotional growth and the importance of relationships among men.
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Unlocking Greatness
In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen dive into the theme of emotional growth and the importance of relationships among men.
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Men’s Emotional Self Awareness Test
In this episode, Jonathan and Stephen dive into the journey of emotional self-awareness, especially for men – and offer a simple test to measure self-awareness.
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Navigating Grief, Fear, and Transformation
We explore how childhood experiences shape adult behavior and emphasize the importance of recognizing and addressing emotional immaturity. Our conversation highlights the role of grief in self-discovery and the impact of critical parenting on self-criticism. Stephen and Jonathan stress the need for honesty, vulnerability, and self-reflection in achieving emotional growth and maturity.
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From Recovery to Growth Mission
Recovery from addiction is more than just getting back on your feet. Recovery is this beautiful bridge to an exciting phase of self-discovery and growth.
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Selfishness Addiction
Is selfishness addiction holding you back from true freedom and joy? Yes, you read that right. Stephen and Jonathan dive deep into how an addiction to selfishness can shape our behaviors and strain our relationships. We’re peeling back the layers of why we sometimes confuse self-preservation with self-centeredness.
Past Events
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2024 Sexual Integrity Leadership Summit
Doctor Marriage was present at the 2024 Sexual Integrity Leadership Summit.
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2024 CCTX Annual Conference
Doctor Marriage was present at the 2024 Cristian Counselors of Texas Annual Conference
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2024 Gateway to Freedom Alumni Workshop
Stephen was present at the Gateway to Freedom Alumni Retreat at Epworth by the Sea conference center.
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2023 Sexual Integrity Leadership Summit
Doctor Marriage was present at the 2023 Sexual Integrity Leadership Summit.
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2023 CCTX Annual Conference
Doctor Marriage was present at the 2023 Cristian Counselors of Texas Annual Conference
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2022 Gateway to Freedom Alumni Workshop
Stephen presented at the Gateway to Freedom Alumni workshop in the Texas Hill Country. Stephen covered emotional growth and the pathway to peace, joy, and rest as laid out in the book, Growth Map.
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2021 Sexual Integrity Leadership Summit
Doctor Marriage was present at the 2021 SILS in San Antonio, TX
Booking Future Events
Stephen Cervantes is open to participate in your ministry related podcast or event. Contact us for more information.