Author: Stephen Cervantes

  • Describing the Problem

    Describing the Problem

    To solve a problem you must define it correctly. If you define it correctly you’ve half solved it. This post is not about a solution. It is about accurately describing the problem.

  • Bear All Things

    Bear All Things

    Stephen shares a wife’s voice in an emotional conflict.

  • Seven Reasons to Read

    Seven Reasons to Read

    Stephen explains seven reasons a husband should read this blog to his wife.

  • Happy Father’s Day

    Happy Father’s Day

    I am remembering my dad today.  He did thousands upon thousands of kind deeds for his family and others.

  • The Middle Place

    The Middle Place

    We are HUMAN beings and SPIRITUAL beings. We often get trapped in the space between being HUMAN and being SPIRITUAL.

  • CO

    CO

    Stephen takes a page from Ken Costa and applies it to marriage. Learn about the concept of Co.

  • Goodness and Joy-Not

    Goodness and Joy-Not

    Here are two thinking errors for you to review: 1) You can’t punish yourself into goodness. 2) You can’t pleasure your way into being joyful.

  • Two Programs: Emotional and Spiritual

    Two Programs: Emotional and Spiritual

    We all run two programs. We run a spiritual and an emotional program. Have you ever heard anyone talk about how the two programs work together?

  • 2 x 4 Love

    2 x 4 Love

    If you were not loved well as a child, you are always on the hunt for more love. And, If you can’t find love you will use a cheap substitute for love. How many people do you know who use some vice to try to comfort themselves?

  • Standing to Support Her

    Standing to Support Her

    What are God’s men called to do when a wife enters into emotional pain? How should he handle himself? What should he think, do, and say?

  • Spiritual Identity

    Spiritual Identity

    One of life’s top challenges is finding your identity. Life will be easier. And, you will find greater rest as you walk in true identity.

  • Introspective

    Introspective

    A friend of Stephen shares a breakthrough in his emotional growth mission.