Today, my husband let me tell a story from the beginning all the way to the end. And, he did not interrupt me.

We’ve been married 25 years. This is the first time it’s ever happened. Being “heard” feels so wonderful. Actually, I’m feeling a little giddy.

This means there is still hope.

I’ve always loved the idea of two become one. It’s funny that one conversation makes me feel close to my husband again. I’ve dreamed of this moment for years. Since childhood, I’ve never felt heard.

You see, my husband likes to talk. Typically, I start a conversation. Then, he takes it over. He tells me his thoughts, ideas and solutions. And, I just let him talk.

But last night was different. He listened. He let me talk. And, I felt so “heard.” It was wonderful!

Prayer

(A husband prays.)
Father, please help me with emotional growth and oneness. Please help me be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to anger. Bless us. Amen.