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My Own Worst Critic

I have a history of being my own worst critic. But not today.

Today will be different. No self-destructive language will be spoken. There will be no self-criticism allowed. Join me. For the next 24 hours please. Refrain from repeating any of the following:

No Shame:

  • What’s the matter with you?
  • When are you ever going to learn?
  • Why can’t you be better?

No Failure talk:

  • Don’t screw up. You’re always screw up.You never learn!
  • When are you going to get it together?

No Name calling:

  • I’m such an idiot.
  • Loser!
  • Stupid!

No False identity:

  • You’re defective.
  • You are not like other people.
  • You are so weird.

No Self criticism:

  • You are all alone. No one wants you.
  • You are not good enough.
  • You’re worthless.

Why does this matter?

Each of the above statements hinder rest. If you want to be more peaceful, stop the self-criticism. Take a 24-hour criticism break.

Prayer

Father, I want peace, rest, and joy in my soul. You said I could have those emotions. Today I’m claiming your emotional promises. So, I will start repeating your truths in place of the above lies. Amen.

Bible

Jesus said.
… I have come to give you everything in abundance more than you expect – life in its fullness until you overflow.
John 10:10 (TPT)

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Posted on

July 15, 2025

by

Stephen Cervantes

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